IS THIS AN EVENT OR A PROCESS?
It is not fair to assume that your spouse saw everything, heard everything and thought everything you just did about a given scenario and then expect them to come to the exact same conclusion you do. Your spouse really did bring a whole different set of perceivers and perceptions to the event. Your two experiences of the event may very well coincide, compliment and enhance each others. On the other hand, you may just as readily contradict, collide or conflict. Merging your experiences into a collaborative history is a process. One that takes work and one that is worth it. continue reading blog entry »